The Sunday NY Times is always a very interesting read. This story was in the Styles Section....
"Parties Where an ID Is the Least of What You Show" [NY Times, sub. required]-

To gain entry, Anna first had to send an erotic essay and a photo of herself to One Leg Up's founder, a husky-voiced, 33-year-old proselytizer for sexual experimentation who goes by the name Palagia....the younger scene is